
Have you ever thought about how we remember people?
Last Saturday, I was walking across the parking lot here at the Chamber and a lady with a small dog said,”hi.” I was not frightened by this as it was the lady not the dog that spoke so I responded with the appropriate salutation, “Hi.” She is one of the local residents and was taking said dog on a walk to do its morning “business” when the dog came over and sniffed me. She cautioned the dog to “Be nice” and then said, ” he works with Peanut.” For those that don’t know Peanut is the little dog that Ingrid, my Office Manager, brings in on Fridays.
Now I suppose that I should have gotten all worked up and my pathetic male ego should have puffed up its little chest and reminded her what an all important person I am and without me the world of the Chamber grinds to a halt. Instead it got me to thinking how we relate to and remember people and how we process those relationships with others.
By the way, none of this is terribly scientific so don’t look for studies or me wearing a white lab coat with a rectal thermometer in the pocket.
All my life when I have been introduced to someone, it has been as, “Margaret’s husband,” or “Sarah’s dad,” or “coach of such and such team,” or… you get the point. And when some one is introduced to me they are often, “Bob, Agnes’ husband” or “Jim, owner of Bob’s World of Monkey’s and Parrots,” or “Gertrude, (job title) at (company)” or my all time favorite, ” Bernice who works with Agnes at that company with Gertrude.You know, the one with the monkey’s!” If charts and diagrams are needed I usually lose track.
Now if someone is introduced as “This is Joe” and I have nothing to relate them to I usually can’t remember who they are… unless they do something REALLY memorable! There is no way for the poor old file clerk in my head to file him in an accessible place where the information will help. I got to experience that this weekend when I was introduced to “Kevin, you know him! You met him at my party!” Sorry but I met about 100 people that day with no frame of reference.
Keeping all this in mind wouldn’t it be great if we knew how our customers/clients relate to us? Do they see you as that person with the blond hair? Or the slight limp from that Olympic skipping injury? Or the person that pierced his/her face and then got that tattoo across the forehead?
Even better, what if we could create that thing or image that others remember? I read a sales book some years ago, don’t recall the title, that told the story of a used car salesman. This man had just come off the failure of his own dealership and was looking to pay the rent and feed the chickens at home. As there were several other sales folks and it was a competitive bunch he had to think of a way to stand out from the crowd. So, he went and bought himself several derby’s, and dyed them green. He then had cards printed that said,”Pat Jones” or what ever his name was, “The Man in the Green Derby.” He handed this card out to just about everyone and no matter how hot the weather he wore the green derby. After a while everybody came in looking for “That guy in the green hat!” They did not have to remember his name just the hat! Needless to say his sales went well!
So as you look to 2010 and what you can do to improve your sales, why not create an reason for them to remember you. What image or style statement can you create, with in reason, that will make them remember you. You may see your sales go up if you work on this and hit on the right thing.
If nothing else you may end up on YouTube! And that will be a memory to make your mother SO proud!