
Sometimes we get too wound up about what is happening right in front of us and forget that life continues. I love this story:
There is a Taoist story of an old farmer who had worked his crops for many years. One day his horse ran away. Upon hearing the news, his neighbors came to visit.
“Such bad luck,” they said sympathetically.
“We’ll see,” the farmer replied.
The next morning the horse returned, bringing with it three other wild horses.
“How wonderful,” the neighbors exclaimed.
“We’ll see,” replied the old man.
The following day, his son tried to ride one of the untamed horses, was thrown, and broke his leg. The neighbors again came to offer their sympathy on his misfortune.
“We’ll see,” answered the farmer.
The day after, military officials came to the village to draft young men into the army. Seeing that the son’s leg was broken, they passed him by. The neighbors congratulated the farmer on how well things had turned out.
“We’ll see” said the farmer.
This is not to say that when bad things happen we should not be sad or mad but keeping things in perspective can really help. And often times things work out.
Before I worked here at the Chamber I had a job at a mortgage sub-prime lender. I did some compliance work and made copies and generally hated my job.
That’s terrible, you say.
We’ll see.
So when a friend came to me and offered me a job making four times as much I jumped at the chance.
That’s terrific, you say.
We’ll see.
When I got the job he failed to inform me that he was under indictment and that his license to do business in California had been revoked. Bad situation
That’s awful, you say.
We’ll see.
So as I was kicking around in a new partnership I heard about the Chamber job. Sounded like a perfect fit so I put my resume in to be considered.
That’s great, you say.
We’ll see.
Turns out that they had all ready selected some one who by all accounts was far better qualified than I.
That’s disappointing, you say.
We’ll see.
A friend involved in the Chamber at that time put pressure on the committee and they decided to interview me. I wowed ‘em and got the job. That was eight years ago and here I am and things look very different from where we were.
That’s great, you say.
We’ll see.
I think when we apply more time than right this minute it can help see that life goes on, business changes and the community changes. Our children grow and in spite of the moronic things we did as parents they survive and even thrive. People we know live and die and we go one.
That’s terrible!
We’ll see.